Unlike men, women are more stimulated mentally. This can seem daunting, but it’s really easy. In fact, it opens the door for many more ways to pleasure a woman and get her turned on. Things as simple as complimenting her in a way you don’t normally do can start the fire. Here are some more ways you can get her going:
Talk to Her
Women can be turned on solely through talk if you play your cards right. There are many things you can say to a woman to turn her on. You can: compliment her, admire her, tell her what you want to do to her, demand her to do something to you (if she’s into that), and more. Use a low and commanding voice when you’re speaking, and sometimes say them quietly in her ear. Try any of these things, and we guarantee you will have her quivering in no time.
Massage her Breasts, Butt, or Thighs
Stimulation is important to women; it helps turn them on and get them ready for what’s to come. Adequate stimulation is what helps a woman produce her own lubricant to make sex pleasurable for her: if she isn’t wet enough, it will probably just hurt. While there are several areas on a woman’s body that can be touched, rubbed, or gently squeezed to turn her on, the best ones are her breasts, her butt, and her thighs. These areas tend to send electricity throughout her entire body.
Use your Touch
When you’re giving compliments and making out with her, try pressing your hand into her thigh, or holding the small of her back. You can also:
stroke her cheek, hold the back of her neck and pull her in closer for the kiss, hold her shoulder, or press other parts of your body into her. The idea is to physically stimulate her while also giving her the feeling that you can’t get close enough, and you want to fully embrace her.
Undress her
Don’t let your lady undress herself. In fact, bonus points if you don’t let her take anything off of her own body. Slowly undress her, taking each item off and laying it next to the bed for her. Trace her body while you’re doing this, and gently caress and kiss each part of her body that is being exposed. Be gentle during this time, it will make her feel like a queen.
Take your Time
Foreplay is the most important for women. As previously mentioned, if a woman isn’t adequately turned on before sex, she will not be wet enough to accommodate for you. It will likely just be an unpleasant experience for the both of you, and who wants that? For her sake and yours, take your time! It will blow her mind that you care enough to make sure she is enjoying herself just as much as you are.
Nibble Her
Gentle nibbles in the right areas can send sparks through a lady’s body. Try nibbling her sensitive areas such as her breasts, her ears, her thighs, her bum, or her neck. Take care to be gentle though: outright biting can be painful and ruin the mood. Unless she’s into that, of course.
