Foreplay is an incredibly important part of intercourse that many people don’t pay enough attention to. When you’ve been together for a while, couples tend to only do the minimal work to get each other hot and bothered before they go at it. If this sounds like you, spend a little extra time with foreplay. In fact, you can even span foreplay across a few days: giving each other oral or hand pleasure for a few days without ever allowing the other to orgasm, before finally diving into sex, can be a wonderful experience for everyone involved.