Oral sex is one of the best ways to turn your partner on. While it may seem very straight forward, there are many tips and tricks to help increase the pleasure your partner gains from your oral treatment. Below, we have provided all of the best tips and tricks for orally stimulating your partner’s genitals.
Blow Jobs
When you’re pleasuring your man, offering a blow job is one of the best ways to get him rock hard and ready for sex. While it might seem straightforward: open your mouth and suck, there are many things you can do to step up your game and maximize the experience for both of you.
Get dramatic about it
Before you go down on him, get him ready. Kiss your way down his body, run your hands down his chest.
Be Controlling
Don’t ask if he wants a blow job; just give him one. Pull his hands away, grab his dick and go to town.
Take Your Time
Don’t rush it: your rhythm can be slow, and the blow job should last a while. Don’t go so long that he cums before sex, but definitely bring him to the edge before stopping.
Explore
You don’t have to restrict your mouth to his shaft. Explore his balls, his frenulum and even take some time to nibble on his inner thighs.
Eye Contact
There is something extremely sexy about looking someone in the eye while they satisfy you with oral sex. Make sure you look up every now and again to meet his eye contact. You’ll also love seeing how much he is enjoying himself.
Get Rough
Not with his penis, that will hurt. But try digging your nails into his bum or dragging them along the backs of his legs.
Flick Your Tongue
Use the tip of your tongue and flick it around his penis, or lick it like you’re eating ice cream. Using different levels of suction and more or less tongue can create all kinds of sexy sensations that arouse him and get him ready for you.
Take It Slow
You don’t have to consume his entire shaft in one go, right off the bat. In fact, if deep throating isn’t you’re thing, you don’t have to do it at all. While some guys love the sight (and sound) of their lady gagging on him, the experience should be enjoyable for you, too. Take it inch by inch, and don’t go any deeper if it becomes uncomfortable.
Encourage Him to Take Control
You can take his hands and guide them to your hair and encourage him to take hold and guide you onto his penis. From there, let him have control over the depth and speed at which you blow him. Just make sure he’s aware of your boundaries beforehand. You can also place your hands on his thighs
so you can press your head backwards if you need him to go more shallow for you.
Hide
To boost the sexiness of your blow job, try hiding from him while you do it! You can either go under the blanket or get him under the table for a naughtier experience. He will love that he has no idea what to expect!