Men are largely stimulated by what they see, as well as physical experiences. In order to cater to these needs, we have comprised a list that primarily uses your looks and touches to get him turned on. These tips are excellent ways to tease your man and get him ready for what is yet to come. Of course, you can always add your own personal spin on these moves. After all, you know your man best!
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Dress Up
This one might be a given. Wear a daringly short dress, some sexy lingerie, or dress up for your man’s favorite sexual fantasy. Put some light makeup on, and let your hair hang down naturally. Alternatively, you could wear pigtails or a ponytail for him to hold onto and ultimately mess up. You can also wear things that’ll be able to stay on during sex, such as blindfolds, garter belts, stockings, or high heels. Jewelry can also enhance the visual experience. Go all out!
Wear Bold Lipstick
You might consider wearing a nice bold lipstick that compliments your skin tone. Typically, red is the color of choice for most, but you could also venture into a pink or magenta. Wear whatever you feel confident in. Be sure to leave lots of kiss marks in areas he can see later when he’s cleaning up, such as on his lower tummy or his inner thighs.
Strip Tease
If you’re dressed up for him, but plan on taking it all off, consider taking it off slowly. Dance around a little and give him a striptease. Toss your clothes
onto his lap while he sits back and watches you. You might even want to put on a sexy song to do this to enhance the mood.
Whisper in His Ear
When you’re talking dirty to him, try whispering it in his ear. Use your breath to tickle the back of his neck, lick right behind his ear, or nibble on the lobe after you talk to him. These types of things can send shivers down his back and get him extremely turned on for you.
Get a Little Rough and Bossy
Men are almost always playing the dominant one in life. Give them a chance to know what it’s like to be at your mercy by getting a little rough and bossy with him. Tell him what you want, and if he’s not quick enough, push him to act faster. For example, if you want oral, tell him. If he doesn’t perform the way you want, press his face into you, or better, roll him onto his back and ride his face. Just take care not to hurt him, and don’t take it too far: some men don’t like an overly dominant woman.
Play Damsel in Distress
As an alternative to the dominant woman, let him be the dominant man. Play the damsel in distress and let him come to your rescue. Or be downright submissive. You can start by calling him something like “master” or “daddy” and letting him know you’re at his service. Men love the way this type of role-play enhances their ego and makes them feel more manly and strong. It plays on their basic instinct to want to be your protector and your dominant.
