When it comes to striking a lover, this should only be employed during sex and with the consent of both individuals involved. Not everyone enjoys being slapped or struck, so never engage in this unless you have discussed it beforehand. If, however, both of you are interested in adding in striking during sexual intercourse, the Kama Sutra lays out the rules for doing so.

First, the places that you are allowed to strike your partner are:

• The shoulders
• The head
• The back
• The sides
• In between their breasts
• The Jaghana

You may then strike them in four different ways:

• With the back of your hand
• With the fingers sprawled out
• With an open hand
• With a fist

It is during being struck that a lover will make various sounds, as she may be in pain and so she will cry out. Any blows that one lover delivers should always be reciprocated by the other. This is never a one-sided activity, and each action should be mirrored in order to highlight the pleasures that are being felt. It is also important that you strike in different ways, along with different spots on the body. For example, if striking with a fist, this should only be done along the back as it is sturdier and should never be done to the head. Striking should never be done in excess and is not done out of anger but instead out of pure pleasure.

Similar to the pressing of nails and scratching, there are eight different kinds of bites that are made by a lover onto the body of their partner. These are also done in private places on the body and are used as a way to remind the partner that they are loved and desired. The eight types of bites are:

Hidden Bite

A bite where no teeth marks are left, only redness in the area

Swollen Bite

When the bite causes the skin to be pressed on both sides

Point

Only two teeth are utilized in order to nip at a small section of skin

Line of Points

Using all of the teeth to bite at small sections of skin

Coral and the Jewel

When you bite someone using both your teeth and lips

Line of Jewels

Any bite that is made using all of the teeth

Broken Cloud

If you have space between your teeth, this type of bit will leave a round mark that is not fully enclosed

Biting off a Boar

Many rows of bites all close to one another

There are eight different types of scratches that are described within the Kama Sutra, each based on a certain way of pressing the nails into the skin.

Sounding

Pressing in the nails so that no mark is made

Half Moon

Leaving a curved mark along the neck and breasts

Circle

Two half-moons created beside each other

Line

A scratch that is made in the shape of a line

Tiger’s Nail

A curved scratch made on the breast

Peacock’s Foot

A curved mark made by pressing all 5 nails into the breast

The Jump of a Hare

A scratch-made with all 5 nails near the nipple

Leaf of a Blue Lotus

A mark made in the shape of a lotus near the breast. These marks are all designed to be placed in hidden locations across the body, particularly on the breast, so that they are only seen by the two lovers and by no one else. They are there to remind the person of their lover and to excite them whenever they gaze upon each mark.

There are different types of kissing teachings from the Kama Sutra we would be featuring. You can learn from them and apply them to express a lifting in your relationship. Here are the different types of kissing.

The Bent Kiss

Why not kiss your lover naturally today with this bent kiss. With your head angled slightly on one side which will allow you to get a maximum lip contact. You can even have a deep tongue penetration with this type of kiss, which is very sensual.

To perform this type of kiss, gently approach your partner and draw it very slowly as you head tilt to one side. You can pick any side you like – left or right. As you go for the kiss, take it slowly, let the lips touch first, then after the full contact, you then open your lips and play around with it before going for the deep penetration. You can also place your hand at the back of your partner’s head as you rub it gently for a more sensual feeling.

The Turned Kiss

If you want to tease your lover and make them feel gentleness and tenderness, go for this type of kiss. This type of kiss is also perfect when you want to start foreplay with your partner. Also, when you’re making love slowly in a face-to-face standing or sitting position.

To perform this type of kiss, one of you, preferable the man turns up the face of his love by holding the chin and head. In that position, he then goes in slowly as your lips touch hers.

The Straight Kiss

When you kiss your love with your heads, you wouldn’t be able to have so much of the tongue penetration. This kiss isn’t to express an intense passion but a gentle way of showing affection and expression of desire. This type of kiss is recommended for new lovers.

To perform this type of kiss, let your lover sits on your lap and uses your hand to caress, fondle her body, especially her back while kissing. Then as you go for the kiss, let your heads be angled only slightly, that it would seem almost straight. Then let your lips come in direct contact with each other and enjoy yourself.

Pressed Kiss

This type of kiss is more of an erotic prelude to kissing. It’s sensual as you’d feel the contact of your lover’s lips. There are two ways you can have this kiss with your lover.

The first method is when you are kissing your lover, and you press your lover’s lower lips with force. This kiss expresses the degrees of passion you feel for your lover at that moment. And if you do it right, it can prelude to even more foreplay and clothes go off, and you know the rest.

For the second method, you use your lips to touch your loves lower lips first, then you go for a greatly pressed kiss. This other type of kiss is even more emotional than the first one, so you can choose any one of the two types of pressed kisses to show how much passion is in your heart.

Kissing the Upper Lips

This kissing from the teaching in Kama Sutra, Vatsyayana talks about a woman returning a man’s kiss, making it clear that a woman can also initiate the kiss. This can also apply to other forms of lovemaking. So, women shouldn’t feel afraid to make the first move.

To perform this kiss, as you kiss your lover’s upper lips, she returns the kiss by kissing his lower lip. You can increase the sensuality of the kiss by kissing your partner’s upper and lower lips in turn. And like most kisses, you and your lover can have it sitting, standing or lying down.

The Clasping Kiss

This type of kiss is the one where either the woman or man takes both the lips of the other between her or his lips. However, for the woman, you can only enjoy taking this kiss when your lover doesn’t have a mustache. That way, you don’t have to get all those hair in your mouth.

When you are enjoying this type of kiss with your lover and your lover uses his/her tongue to touch the tongue, teeth, or palate of your lover, it’s called the fighting of the tongue. Generally, in clasping kiss, scrupulous oral hygiene is important.

A Young Girl’s Kiss

The young girl’s kiss is a type of kiss the Kama text recommends for lovers who are about to have sex for the first time. There are different types of young girl’s kiss, and it’s recommended that the kiss is done moderately and not to be continued for a long time.

The nominal kiss

To have this kiss like a girl, use your mouth to touch your love’s own. But don’t do the touching yourself, approach your lover closely, and he would do the touching himself.

The throbbing kiss

To have this kiss like a girl, set your bashfulness aside, touches the lips of her lover that is pressed into her mouth, and with an object move her lower lips but not the upper one.

The touching kiss

To have this kiss like a girl, kiss your lover by using your tongue to touch his lips. As you close your eyes, place your hands on your lover’s hands and enjoy the kiss.

Kissing is seen as something that should occur prior to sex, and Vatsyayana was a firm believer that actions such as kissing, embracing, and scratching are not meant to be used during sexual intercourse. Instead, these are all different forms of foreplay, and as such, should be engaged in with the intention of arousing our partner and preparing them for a sexual union.

Where you can kiss on a person’s body is virtually limitless, but in the Kama Sutra, there are strict rules about where is acceptable and where is not. The places listed as acceptable to kiss are:

• The forehead
• The eyes
• The cheeks
• The lips
• Inside the mouth
• The throat
• The chest
• The breasts

Beyond this, the rest of the body is listed as off-limits to kissing, although the author does mention that some regions around the

• The thighs
• The arms
• The belly button

It is very important that each person pays close attention to where their partner prefers to be kissed so that they may please them and not cause any distress. Kissing involves the use of your mouth, which is one of the most sensitive parts of the body. You could use your lips or tongue to lick, suck, kiss, and nibble or nozzle areas on your partner’s body. Kissing is even art of its own you and your partner can use every day. And Kama Sutra recognizes the benefits of kissing and its different forms. The intensity of the way you kiss your partner has a role it plays on expressing your feelings to your partner. The intensity of a kiss uses a combination of three senses – smell, taste, and touch — each of these parts of the body produces a strong emotional response from your partner. Kissing ranges from fleeting contact to deep penetration with your tongue and so on. Let’s dive into it a little bit more.

Oral sex is one of the best ways to turn your partner on. While it may seem very straight forward, there are many tips and tricks to help increase the pleasure your partner gains from your oral treatment. Below, we have provided all of the best tips and tricks for orally stimulating your partner’s genitals.

Blow Jobs

When you’re pleasuring your man, offering a blow job is one of the best ways to get him rock hard and ready for sex. While it might seem straightforward: open your mouth and suck, there are many things you can do to step up your game and maximize the experience for both of you.

Get dramatic about it

Before you go down on him, get him ready. Kiss your way down his body, run your hands down his chest.

Be Controlling

Don’t ask if he wants a blow job; just give him one. Pull his hands away, grab his dick and go to town.

Take Your Time

Don’t rush it: your rhythm can be slow, and the blow job should last a while. Don’t go so long that he cums before sex, but definitely bring him to the edge before stopping.

Explore

You don’t have to restrict your mouth to his shaft. Explore his balls, his frenulum and even take some time to nibble on his inner thighs.

Eye Contact

There is something extremely sexy about looking someone in the eye while they satisfy you with oral sex. Make sure you look up every now and again to meet his eye contact. You’ll also love seeing how much he is enjoying himself.

Get Rough

Not with his penis, that will hurt. But try digging your nails into his bum or dragging them along the backs of his legs.

Flick Your Tongue

Use the tip of your tongue and flick it around his penis, or lick it like you’re eating ice cream. Using different levels of suction and more or less tongue can create all kinds of sexy sensations that arouse him and get him ready for you.

Take It Slow

You don’t have to consume his entire shaft in one go, right off the bat. In fact, if deep throating isn’t you’re thing, you don’t have to do it at all. While some guys love the sight (and sound) of their lady gagging on him, the experience should be enjoyable for you, too. Take it inch by inch, and don’t go any deeper if it becomes uncomfortable.

Encourage Him to Take Control

You can take his hands and guide them to your hair and encourage him to take hold and guide you onto his penis. From there, let him have control over the depth and speed at which you blow him. Just make sure he’s aware of your boundaries beforehand. You can also place your hands on his thighs

so you can press your head backwards if you need him to go more shallow for you.

Hide

To boost the sexiness of your blow job, try hiding from him while you do it! You can either go under the blanket or get him under the table for a naughtier experience. He will love that he has no idea what to expect!

Unlike men, women are more stimulated mentally. This can seem daunting, but it’s really easy. In fact, it opens the door for many more ways to pleasure a woman and get her turned on. Things as simple as complimenting her in a way you don’t normally do can start the fire. Here are some more ways you can get her going:

Talk to Her

Women can be turned on solely through talk if you play your cards right. There are many things you can say to a woman to turn her on. You can: compliment her, admire her, tell her what you want to do to her, demand her to do something to you (if she’s into that), and more. Use a low and commanding voice when you’re speaking, and sometimes say them quietly in her ear. Try any of these things, and we guarantee you will have her quivering in no time.

Massage her Breasts, Butt, or Thighs

Stimulation is important to women; it helps turn them on and get them ready for what’s to come. Adequate stimulation is what helps a woman produce her own lubricant to make sex pleasurable for her: if she isn’t wet enough, it will probably just hurt. While there are several areas on a woman’s body that can be touched, rubbed, or gently squeezed to turn her on, the best ones are her breasts, her butt, and her thighs. These areas tend to send electricity throughout her entire body.

Use your Touch

When you’re giving compliments and making out with her, try pressing your hand into her thigh, or holding the small of her back. You can also:

stroke her cheek, hold the back of her neck and pull her in closer for the kiss, hold her shoulder, or press other parts of your body into her. The idea is to physically stimulate her while also giving her the feeling that you can’t get close enough, and you want to fully embrace her.

Undress her

Don’t let your lady undress herself. In fact, bonus points if you don’t let her take anything off of her own body. Slowly undress her, taking each item off and laying it next to the bed for her. Trace her body while you’re doing this, and gently caress and kiss each part of her body that is being exposed. Be gentle during this time, it will make her feel like a queen.

Take your Time

Foreplay is the most important for women. As previously mentioned, if a woman isn’t adequately turned on before sex, she will not be wet enough to accommodate for you. It will likely just be an unpleasant experience for the both of you, and who wants that? For her sake and yours, take your time! It will blow her mind that you care enough to make sure she is enjoying herself just as much as you are.

Nibble Her

Gentle nibbles in the right areas can send sparks through a lady’s body. Try nibbling her sensitive areas such as her breasts, her ears, her thighs, her bum, or her neck. Take care to be gentle though: outright biting can be painful and ruin the mood. Unless she’s into that, of course.

Men are largely stimulated by what they see, as well as physical experiences. In order to cater to these needs, we have comprised a list that primarily uses your looks and touches to get him turned on. These tips are excellent ways to tease your man and get him ready for what is yet to come. Of course, you can always add your own personal spin on these moves. After all, you know your man best!

Dress Up

This one might be a given. Wear a daringly short dress, some sexy lingerie, or dress up for your man’s favorite sexual fantasy. Put some light makeup on, and let your hair hang down naturally. Alternatively, you could wear pigtails or a ponytail for him to hold onto and ultimately mess up. You can also wear things that’ll be able to stay on during sex, such as blindfolds, garter belts, stockings, or high heels. Jewelry can also enhance the visual experience. Go all out!

Wear Bold Lipstick

You might consider wearing a nice bold lipstick that compliments your skin tone. Typically, red is the color of choice for most, but you could also venture into a pink or magenta. Wear whatever you feel confident in. Be sure to leave lots of kiss marks in areas he can see later when he’s cleaning up, such as on his lower tummy or his inner thighs.

Strip Tease

If you’re dressed up for him, but plan on taking it all off, consider taking it off slowly. Dance around a little and give him a striptease. Toss your clothes

onto his lap while he sits back and watches you. You might even want to put on a sexy song to do this to enhance the mood.

Whisper in His Ear

When you’re talking dirty to him, try whispering it in his ear. Use your breath to tickle the back of his neck, lick right behind his ear, or nibble on the lobe after you talk to him. These types of things can send shivers down his back and get him extremely turned on for you.

Get a Little Rough and Bossy

Men are almost always playing the dominant one in life. Give them a chance to know what it’s like to be at your mercy by getting a little rough and bossy with him. Tell him what you want, and if he’s not quick enough, push him to act faster. For example, if you want oral, tell him. If he doesn’t perform the way you want, press his face into you, or better, roll him onto his back and ride his face. Just take care not to hurt him, and don’t take it too far: some men don’t like an overly dominant woman.

Play Damsel in Distress

As an alternative to the dominant woman, let him be the dominant man. Play the damsel in distress and let him come to your rescue. Or be downright submissive. You can start by calling him something like “master” or “daddy” and letting him know you’re at his service. Men love the way this type of role-play enhances their ego and makes them feel more manly and strong. It plays on their basic instinct to want to be your protector and your dominant.

Show each other you care

Remember that great sex starts and finishes in the mind. There are emotions that are needed to stir up the best in the relationship. The act of foreplay doesn’t necessarily mean that there is a sexual act taking place at all. Foreplay really means whatever goes on prior to the act of intercourse.

That, for the Kama Sutra means to have a conversation about anything that relaxes the two of you. Go out into the fresh air, hold hands, build the mood and drink wine. Feed each other good food and be really in the now and with each other entirely.

Completely Embrace

There is something to be said for the good old-fashioned embrace! This does even more for the chemicals in your body. An embrace, whether it’s with a human or with an animal, any warmblood loving embrace with another living thing, does wonder for releasing the chemicals in the brain to the body.

Gentleman, use your teeth

According to the Kama Sutra, there are ways that you can use your teeth in any kissable area of a woman’s body. The key is gentleness. You could even use your teeth to remove her clothes in part. Or, you could nibble lightly on the neck, the ear or her vaginal lips but remember to be gentle.

Let her be the advancer

The roles for men and women are clearly marked in the Kama Sutra, but it is also very much encouraged that you allow her to take her sexual aggressions out on you with no issue. Let her act out as many fantasies as

she wishes because this is the best thing to strengthen a relationship on the part of pleasing the female emotions.

Foreplay is an incredibly important part of intercourse that many people don’t pay enough attention to. When you’ve been together for a while, couples tend to only do the minimal work to get each other hot and bothered before they go at it. If this sounds like you, spend a little extra time with foreplay. In fact, you can even span foreplay across a few days: giving each other oral or hand pleasure for a few days without ever allowing the other to orgasm, before finally diving into sex, can be a wonderful experience for everyone involved.